Planning a Small Wedding in Vermont? Here’s What You Need to Know

There’s something really special about planning a small wedding in Vermont. Maybe it’s the mountain air, the slower pace, or the way the golden light filters through the trees. Maybe it’s the freedom to create a day that actually feels like you—not just one that checks all the traditional boxes.

Whatever brings you here, I’m so glad you’re considering an intimate celebration. As a Vermont-based wedding photographer (and someone who loves a good love story), I’ve been lucky to witness so many meaningful, relaxed, and joy-filled small weddings across this state. And I want to share what I’ve learned along the way—both the logistical stuff and the emotional side of things.

This blog post is your guide to planning a small wedding in Vermont—whether that’s an elopement for two or a gathering of 30 or 40 of your favorite people. We’ll cover everything from defining what “small” means to you to choosing vendors, navigating family dynamics, and embracing the unpredictable beauty of the Green Mountains. Let’s get into it.

What Is a Small Wedding, Anyway?

Spoiler: there’s no official definition. Some couples keep it to just the two of them and an officiant on a mountaintop. Others gather a cozy crew of 20-65 friends and family for a long-table dinner in the woods. What matters is that you define what small means for your wedding—based on connection, not headcount.

Together as a couple ask yourselves:

• Who needs to be there for this to feel complete?
• What kind of experience do we want to create for ourselves and our people?
• What would feel like “us”?

Intimate weddings are not about doing less. They’re about doing what matters most.

Smaller Guest List = More Presence, More Flexibility

The beauty of a small wedding is that it opens the door to meaningful choices. Sleep in and have coffee together before the ceremony? YES. Want to hike in your wedding attire? Go for it. Craving a long-table dinner under the stars with a local chef? You can actually do that. You get to slow down. To be present. To notice the little things. That’s where the good stuff lives.

Choosing the Right Vermont Location

Vermont has no shortage of dreamy and grounded spots to host your celebration. Whether you’re craving sweeping mountain views, a forest glen, a cozy inn, or a backyard, the key is to choose a space that aligns with your energy and values.

Here are a few ideas to consider:

• For nature lovers: Look into tucked-away venues like The Inn at Weathersfield, Moose Meadow Lodge, or even a private Airbnb with a view.
• For a backyard vibe: Think about any meaningful family properties or friend-owned land.
• For a mix of charm and ease: Check out small inns or barn venues that specialize in intimate weddings.

Reminder: depending on your guest list keep in mind accessibility, weather backups, and whether the venue allows for customization (like private vows, fireside dinners, or barefoot ceremonies in a meadow).

Choose Vendors That Feel Like Teammates

When you’re planning a small wedding, the people around you matter more than ever. You’re not just hiring a photographer, planner, or caterer—you’re inviting humans into one of the most emotional, intimate days of your life. So here’s your permission slip to be picky.

Look for vendors who:

• Make you feel seen, heard, and supported.
• Share your values—connection, storytelling, sustainability, whatever lights you up.
• Are calm, flexible, and communicative.
• Bring joy and professionalism in equal measure.

And yes, that includes your photographer. Having someone who quietly documents the real, in-between stuff while gently guiding you through the day can be a perfect fit (hi, that’s me!). Looking for more tips? Check out my post on: How to Choose Wedding Vendors Who Align With Your Values.

Don’t Be Afraid to Break (or Rewrite) the Rules

Want to have a slow morning getting ready together? Do it.

Want to walk each other down the aisle? Yes.

Want to do vows in private before ceremony with guests? I’m for it.

Want to do a first look in your hiking boots before the ceremony? Cool.

Want to skip the traditional reception and have a picnic with champagne and your dog? Let’s go.

The beauty of an intimate wedding is that you don’t have to follow a script. You can build your day around what feels good—not what’s expected.

Feel All the Feelings (It’s Okay!)

Let’s be real: even small weddings can bring up big emotions. Family dynamics, expectations, weather stress, joy, overwhelm—it’s all part of the experience. Just know that it’s normal. You’re not doing it wrong. You’re just a human having a big, beautiful day.

Here are a few gentle ways to care for yourself:

• Build space into your timeline for breaks and breathwork.
• Have a “day-of anchor”—a person who helps keep things grounded (hint: it’s me lol)
• Let the imperfect moments unfold; they often lead to the best stories.

Want more tips? Check out How to Stay Present on Your Wedding Day for gentle tips and rituals that help you slow down and soak it all in.

Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, planning a small wedding in Vermont isn’t about doing less—it’s about doing what matters most. Whether it’s barefoot vows at the lake or a candlelit dinner in the woods, the heart of your day is the connection you share with each other and your people.

And if you’re looking for someone to document that connection—the real, emotional, in-between stuff—I’d love to be that person. Let’s talk about your day, your story, and what you’re dreaming up in the Green Mountains.